Good evening,
everyone. Let me first begin by thanking the Office of the Rector and the
Marianists at UD for choosing me to receive this award. I am grateful for and
humbled by your selection. When receiving an award like this, one that praises
something good that you are doing, it is easy for me to become overconfident in
that goodness. So, I see this as an opportunity to check my humility.
I also want to
sincerely congratulate the other nominees and praise their examples of the
Marianist charism at UD. I deeply admire Lori’s desire to use her education to
impact the world. James’s love of and skill for mentoring younger students in a
true Marianist spirit is something we could all learn to do more of. Liz’s
openness and acceptance of others has changed my life. Caitlin’s commitment to
social justice has encouraged me to become more involved in the issues I care
about. Maryjo is an example that you truly can care about each individual you
encounter. Jessica personifies love. Lauren Cook exemplifies Marianist mission
with her desire to change the status quo. Lauren Hackman’s commitment to prayer
is an expression of the reliance we should all have on God. From these eight
people, all of you in this room and countless other lay and vowed Marianists on
campus, I have learned what it means to live in the spirit of Mary’s enfleshment
of Christ in the world.
I have a memory deep in my mind of sitting on Stuart Hill in the hot summer sun
when I was probably five or six eating a turkey sub from Milano’s. My parents
often brought us to Dayton to enjoy what I have a memory deep in my mind of
sitting on Stuart Hill in the hot summer sun when I was probably five or six
eating a turkey sub from Milano’s. My parents often brought us to Dayton to
enjoy what was their favorite cuisine during their time at UD. I always
remember seeing that stone bust of Mary of Nazareth on the archway of the
entrance into the University. Little did I know that the woman would have such
an impact on my life.
When I finally
got to the age of applying to schools, I never thought I would be at UD. I
applied but had no intention of accepting any offer of a place here. But, as
you can tell, my intentions were wrong. In April of my senior year of high
school, I began praying earnestly for guidance about where to go to college. I
truly believe the Holy Spirit called me to UD and I think the Marianists were
part of the reason for that call. They have changed my life.
The spirit of
the Marianists has been the most influential piece of my time here at UD. From
the first Marianist I met in Stuart Hall’s campus ministry to my experience with
the UD Summer Appalachia Program to my work in the Fitz Center for Leadership in
Community to my decision to become a lay Marianist this spring, the Marianists
have formed the past four years of my life. I’ve learned about an apostolic
mission that sometimes doesn’t even require words. I’ve learned to pray in new
and life-giving ways. I’ve come to know Mary as an advocate, as a friend and as
a model of what it means to be Christian. I’ve experienced what happens when
all voices are included in a conversation and my understanding of community will
never be the same.
These five
pillars of the Marianist charism are a part of me and they are a part of all
those who were nominated for this award. I hope that because of them we will
all be more compassionate neighbors, have a deeper desire for justice, remember
to stand with those who are alone and continue to grow in our prayer lives.
These things
are all rooted in love. Our beloved Adele says that “what we must constantly
strive to instill into each other is the love of God” and I think this is what
our mission is all about. We are called to love others as God has loved us.
That means recognizing the presence of God in each person you encounter and
acting in life-giving ways that don’t destroy or cut down. It means fostering a
sense of love that reflects the love of Christ who died for us. This was the
work of Mary at the Nativity, at Cana, at the Cross and at Pentecost. This is
the work that she passes on to us.